[It's not their job. They've got nothing to gain by trying to understand what it's like, so why bother explaining it? What's to be gained from that? Unless some unfortunate soul happens to uncover your medical records, and needs help deciphering them to his satisfaction.]
i feel like a deer in the headlights of love
Guess not.
[So where does that leave them?]
Doesn't make it easier, though.