( it's not an easy road. what is, in the journey of self-realization, self-actualization, acceptance? he does not want to lie to her, to tell her it is simple or quick; the truth is it is neither of those things. there are pitfalls and steps back. there is no end to quelling self-loathing that has been learned. this he knows.

chloe is different. her life; it's been different. he hopes the obstacles that will be put in her path are none-so damaging as his, but there's no guarantee she will be spared more suffering, of her own devise or not. the only guarantee is that she will continue, good or bad. he knows that if she keeps to her will, she will persevere.

he's soft, merciful, as he replies. he speaks from experience. ) I've found accepting yourself; more, finding happiness with yourself, is a difficult thing. ( he's still—always—trying to find some content. security. only with his family, friends, caroline, has he found some peace. with his daughter. ) You will always have moments of doubt. You will grieve, you will anger, but you will also find moments of peace, ( he reaches out, places a hand on her shoulder ) knowing you are not alone.