Calling it "comparatively normal" is kind of generous, I'd say.

[ Although she does kind of agree that there's a spectrum when it comes to these things, but it's difficult to weigh all these different situations against each other when they're all so very different. ]

I'd say about 99.9% of the people who walked around in my world would say your situation, or what you've told me about it, is very, very weird.